TUN-8052: Update go to 1.21.5

Also update golang.org/x/net and google.golang.org/grpc to fix vulnerabilities,
although cloudflared is using them in a way that is not exposed to those risks

vendor/google.golang.org/grpc/preloader.go

@@ -37,7 +37,7 @@ type PreparedMsg struct {
 }
 
 // Encode marshalls and compresses the message using the codec and compressor for the stream.
-func (p *PreparedMsg) Encode(s Stream, msg interface{}) error {
+func (p *PreparedMsg) Encode(s Stream, msg any) error {
 	ctx := s.Context()
 	rpcInfo, ok := rpcInfoFromContext(ctx)
 	if !ok {