TUN-8052: Update go to 1.21.5

Also update golang.org/x/net and google.golang.org/grpc to fix vulnerabilities,
although cloudflared is using them in a way that is not exposed to those risks

vendor/google.golang.org/grpc/internal/channelz/util_nonlinux.go

@@ -22,6 +22,6 @@
 package channelz
 
 // GetSocketOption gets the socket option info of the conn.
-func GetSocketOption(c interface{}) *SocketOptionData {
+func GetSocketOption(c any) *SocketOptionData {
 	return nil
 }