TUN-8052: Update go to 1.21.5

Also update golang.org/x/net and google.golang.org/grpc to fix vulnerabilities,
although cloudflared is using them in a way that is not exposed to those risks

vendor/golang.org/x/sys/unix/syscall_unix.go

@@ -3,7 +3,6 @@
 // license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
 
 //go:build aix || darwin || dragonfly || freebsd || linux || netbsd || openbsd || solaris
-// +build aix darwin dragonfly freebsd linux netbsd openbsd solaris
 
 package unix
 
@@ -147,6 +146,14 @@ func (m *mmapper) Munmap(data []byte) (err error) {
 	return nil
 }
 
+func Mmap(fd int, offset int64, length int, prot int, flags int) (data []byte, err error) {
+	return mapper.Mmap(fd, offset, length, prot, flags)
+}
+
+func Munmap(b []byte) (err error) {
+	return mapper.Munmap(b)
+}
+
 func Read(fd int, p []byte) (n int, err error) {
 	n, err = read(fd, p)
 	if raceenabled {
@@ -541,6 +548,9 @@ func SetNonblock(fd int, nonblocking bool) (err error) {
 	if err != nil {
 		return err
 	}
+	if (flag&O_NONBLOCK != 0) == nonblocking {
+		return nil
+	}
 	if nonblocking {
 		flag |= O_NONBLOCK
 	} else {