TUN-8052: Update go to 1.21.5

Also update golang.org/x/net and google.golang.org/grpc to fix vulnerabilities,
although cloudflared is using them in a way that is not exposed to those risks

vendor/golang.org/x/crypto/ssh/mux.go

@@ -231,6 +231,12 @@ func (m *mux) onePacket() error {
 		return m.handleChannelOpen(packet)
 	case msgGlobalRequest, msgRequestSuccess, msgRequestFailure:
 		return m.handleGlobalPacket(packet)
+	case msgPing:
+		var msg pingMsg
+		if err := Unmarshal(packet, &msg); err != nil {
+			return fmt.Errorf("failed to unmarshal ping@openssh.com message: %w", err)
+		}
+		return m.sendMessage(pongMsg(msg))
 	}
 
 	// assume a channel packet.