TUN-8052: Update go to 1.21.5

Also update golang.org/x/net and google.golang.org/grpc to fix vulnerabilities,
although cloudflared is using them in a way that is not exposed to those risks

vendor/golang.org/x/crypto/ssh/messages.go

@@ -349,6 +349,20 @@ type userAuthGSSAPIError struct {
 	LanguageTag string
 }
 
+// Transport layer OpenSSH extension. See [PROTOCOL], section 1.9
+const msgPing = 192
+
+type pingMsg struct {
+	Data string `sshtype:"192"`
+}
+
+// Transport layer OpenSSH extension. See [PROTOCOL], section 1.9
+const msgPong = 193
+
+type pongMsg struct {
+	Data string `sshtype:"193"`
+}
+
 // typeTags returns the possible type bytes for the given reflect.Type, which
 // should be a struct. The possible values are separated by a '|' character.
 func typeTags(structType reflect.Type) (tags []byte) {