TUN-8052: Update go to 1.21.5

Also update golang.org/x/net and google.golang.org/grpc to fix vulnerabilities,
although cloudflared is using them in a way that is not exposed to those risks

vendor/golang.org/x/crypto/chacha20/chacha_arm64.go

@@ -2,8 +2,7 @@
 // Use of this source code is governed by a BSD-style
 // license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
 
-//go:build go1.11 && gc && !purego
-// +build go1.11,gc,!purego
+//go:build gc && !purego
 
 package chacha20