TUN-8052: Update go to 1.21.5

Also update golang.org/x/net and google.golang.org/grpc to fix vulnerabilities,
although cloudflared is using them in a way that is not exposed to those risks

vendor/github.com/go-logr/logr/SECURITY.md

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+# Security Policy
+
+If you have discovered a security vulnerability in this project, please report it
+privately. **Do not disclose it as a public issue.** This gives us time to work with you
+to fix the issue before public exposure, reducing the chance that the exploit will be
+used before a patch is released.
+
+You may submit the report in the following ways:
+
+- send an email to go-logr-security@googlegroups.com
+- send us a [private vulnerability report](https://github.com/go-logr/logr/security/advisories/new)
+
+Please provide the following information in your report:
+
+- A description of the vulnerability and its impact
+- How to reproduce the issue
+
+We ask that you give us 90 days to work on a fix before public exposure.